i'm not hitting on you!

what is it? why is it that guys think i'm hitting on them when i'm just being a friend? and then why is it that other guys tell me i'm not forward enough? just goes to show that men have no clue*.

r, i am not in love with you, no matter what what's-her-face says. k, i am not hitting on you; you're married for goodness' sake! you guys are my friends and i love you, but not like that.

i'm no feminist, but there are lots of reasons why i like being a girl. there are two reasons that i don't. the first is that i can't help people in ways i'd like to help them. i'm simply physically incapable, or it's not safe. the second is that i am not able to love my guy friends freely without someone confusing the issue.

i suppose it is a form of "prejudice" that is intrinsic to this flawed world. i am not taken seriously as a professional or in other capacities because i look young and "cute" (bleah). it's not intentional, it's just that people are incapable of meeting others without processing their physical appearance and adding that to the mix of that they think. "i look at your face and i know" (camodad).

oh well.

still, i'm not hitting on you!

*men have no clue, and women are nuts. that's just how it is.